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Anneli's avatar

So interesting and touching to read about your life with the boys! You are doing a very important job by sharing, we are so many needing to be in touch with other parents, carrying somehow eachothers burdens and also joyful moments. You are one of a kind

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James Hunt's avatar

Thank you Anneli. That's exactly why I share, I know how important it is for parents to see that

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Kate's avatar

What a absolutely wonderful role model you are . Your boys and parents are so fortunate to have you. People like you are the unsung hero’s of the world who fly under the radar.

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James Hunt's avatar

Wow, thank you Kate, that's really lovely of you to say

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Sheena Rydings's avatar

A great read and looking forward to more posts. My son is autistic and it’s good to read other peoples experiences and you articulate what it is like living with an autistic child so well. It’s important you share all aspects including the amazing beautiful moments 🤍

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James Hunt's avatar

Couldn't agree more. Being honest and realistic I think is so important for other families to see

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Beth's avatar

Awesome boys! All three of you!

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Anna's avatar

Your writing is so genuine and honest and you are such an inspiration to me and so many others. I always look forward to your stories which have me taught me so much on this journey I am with my son.

I'd like to ask you a personal question and I'll understand if you don't reply. Did your marriage break down because of the difficulties linked to having autistic children?

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Linda Cobourn's avatar

Thanks, James, for the honesty in sharing this. My son is an adult now, and the meltdowns are few and far between. Allen is a gentle-if tall!--soul. SInce my husband's death four years ago and Allen's unusual grief process--which involved physically searching for his father for eight months--life has become quiet for Allen and I. And it's the way we like it. We need much more information about autism, and much more support for both those on the spectrum and their parents.

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